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With no laws against it, workplace harassment takes a toll. [ Freep.com, by Laura Casey, 15/11/2010 ]

“It’s like I’m stuck,” she says. “I don’t know what to do. I am sick, and I can’t change this person. I don’t want to lose my job.”

Bullying is a growing concern across the country, yet workplace bullying is a life-altering threat that rarely gathers the attention that schoolyard bullying does. Still, workplace bullying can prompt feelings of stress, depression and anxiety, and some say it can cause heart attacks and even lead to suicide.

There are no laws on the books in any state against workplace bullying and no easy legal recourse to embark on when bullying ruins lives.

Psychologists and spouses Gary and Ruth Namie have heard thousands of stories as heartbreaking as Kim’s since 1997, when they developed an anti-workplace bullying organization in Benicia, Calif. Now called the Workplace Bullying Institute, and headquartered in Bellingham, Wash., the center offers support and counseling to people who are victims of what the Namies call verbal violence in the workplace. They also commission studies to find out who is being bullied at work and how bullying affects the workplace.

The Namies got into this business after Ruth Namie became a target for a bully at a mental health center. Soon after reporting to her job, she says she was screamed at in the halls, picked on by her boss and isolated from her coworkers.

“I felt I had done something wrong,” she says. “I did so well in my other jobs and never had a problem. I had a very good career. I just wanted to work. But I kept feeling like I was doing something wrong. I was ashamed, and I didn’t want to tell anybody.”


She was eventually put on administrative leave, and she and her husband made it their mission to fight workplace bullying.

“I am so worried about this,” says Gary Namie, visibly shaken during a recent seminar in South San Francisco where a young woman in tears shared that she had been bullied two years before. “You don’t typically read about the suicides that are related to this, the health problems. Yet we tell (victims of bullying) that if you don’t take care of your health, it will harm you in innumerable ways, and it could cost you your life.”

Workplace bullying can happen in any workplace, Namie says, and the targets are usually people who simply want to do their work undisturbed. The bully can be a boss, coworker or supervisor. According to 2010 research by Zogby International, 35% of workers — 53 million people — have experienced bullying firsthand. The study says that 62% of bullies are men, while 58% of targets are women. Women target women 80% of time. Workplace bullies are usually jealous of the target’s accomplishments and drive, the Namies say.

Math professor William Lepowsky had been teaching at Laney College in Oakland, Calif., for 32 years when bulliteaching at Laney College in Oakland, Calif., for 32 years es started targeting him in the early 2000s.

“It was something I was absolutely ignorant of until I experienced it,” he says. The bullying started after Lepowsky wrote and self-published a statistics textbook used at Laney. He was accused by an administrator of acting improperly and, even after being cleared of any wrongdoing, Lepowsky says he was threatened with the loss of his job.

Lepowsky fought back by gathering support from coworkers and won, eventually receiving a written apology from the then-chancellor of the district for the “stress and strain” caused by actions of other administrators. A change in leadership at the college and district made him feel comfortable at work again.Lepowsky talks openly about his experience because he wants to help others. He never sued the district. But if he had chosen to sue because of the bullying, he would have faced a daunting problem: The practice is not illegal in the workplace if it’s not based on discrimination and doesn’t fit the legal definition of harassment. Therefore, if a target chooses to take legal action, he or she rarely wins the case against an employer.

“They have no legal recourse because it’s not against the law,” says Michelle Smith, a Sacramento-based workplace advocate trying to gather support for the Healthy Workplace Bill. The bill, which has been introduced in several states and has died in committee in California, would define an “abusive work environment” and hold both the bully and the employer accountable for the harm workplace bullying causes.

So what can be done if you are a target of bullying?

In their book “The Bully At Work: What You Can Do to Stop the Hurt and Reclaim Your Dignity on the Job” (Sourcebooks, $16.99), the Namies suggest ways of taking care of your needs first. See a therapist or work with a Workplace Bullying Institute expert to develop strategies for coping with the bully. In some cases, asking an employer to fix the problem is appropriate — but it could backfire. According to Workplace Bullying Institute research, in some cases the complaints are either ignored or the bullying is intensified.

In a worst-case scenario, if your health is being severely harmed, they suggest taking time off or looking for alternative workplaces.

“I think your health is much more important than working at a job that can potentially kill you,” Ruth Namie says.